Sarah Dekker

Hello, I am Sarah Dekker.

It would be an honour to guide you, to create a safe space for you to journey within. Above all I am excited to support you on your path, as you empower yourself to navigate your own inner world with ever growing trust and compassion.

In our sessions together we will be working with (and through) challenges in your life, work and relationships.

  1. You will deepen your understanding of and discover new ways to be present to yourself.
  2. You will transform old patterns and limiting beliefs to be able to live a more fulfilling and connected life.
  3. You will find more freedom, ease, connection and joy through these transformational coaching sessions.

My work is based on

  • Nonviolent Communication (NVC)
  • Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy
  • Up to date knowledge about Developmental Trauma
  • Mediation training
  • Dyad Intensives
  • Gender healing work
  • Mindfulness

Choose a Pricing Option

Private coaching based on your needs.

The duration of a session is 70-90 minutes.

 I want to be sure that my offering is accessible to all regardless of access to resources. I therefore offer my sessions on a sliding scale. I trust in the integrity of my clients and ask you to check which of these amounts you can comfortably pay whilst keeping in mind that offering these sessions is part of how I cover my basic living costs. I have listed different options below. Should you find that this is still out of your reach, do get in touch to explore a different form of exchange.


70-90 minute session with Sarah

In order to make it sustainable for me, I would like to receive 75 euros/session.


70-90 minute session with Sarah

Contribute this amount if you would like to support someone with less access to resources.


70-90 minute session with Sarah

If you have less access to resources then I would be happy to receive 55 euros.


7-Session Bundle

Book a series of coaching sessions with Sarah


30-minute empathy session

Book a meeting with me for 30 minutes

In a half-hour session, I offer my empathic presence, meeting you where you are at this moment. Or you might simply have an NVC-related question to explore together.


Nicole Mansour, Integral+ Coach

"I am so grateful for Sarah's compassionate presence in our coaching sessions. In being met so fully by another soul I have been gifted the opportunity to heal parts that could only emerge in the safety that Sarah provides. Her intuitive guidance in working with me in such a skilled and empathic way has been a soothing balm and a healing antidote to parts long hidden in pain. I am so grateful for the work that you do, Sarah."

Frequently Asked Questions

What kinds of problems does this coaching help with?

This coaching is supportive for working with building a sense of self-esteem, perfectionism, procrastination, relationship problems, people pleasing, anger, depression, eating issues, addictions, shyness, transforming your inner critic.

Can I get a refund if I'm unhappy with my purchase?

Coaching is an organic process, where I show up to meet you, and am present with you for 90 minutes per session. As such refunds, are not possible. However, if you are unhappy for whatever, reason, please let me know so we can discuss how I can meet your needs and serve you best.

How do I schedule my appointment?

Upon purchasing coaching, you'll receive further instructions on how to book a time for your appointment.

How can I reschedule or cancel my appointment?

Bookings need to be made one week in advance. Once you have paid you will receive a link to my calendar to book your appointment. If you need to reschedule or cancel a coaching session, please do so (via the email confirmation you receive, or email me) at least 24hrs in advance.

Can I purchase coaching more than once?

Absolutely! If you find yourself in need of coaching more than once, simply purchase the coaching again.


Robert M. Kržišnik, MSc. Psych.,

CNVC certified trainer, facilitator, mediator

"Receiving sessions from Sarah has been such a sweet and meaningful journey. While exploring my inner world in its many aspects, she was besides me as an endlessly patient, supportive and compassionate friend, or sister, helping me navigate my way through the debris of broken-off parts of my being, integrating them back into a whole. I warmly suggest Sarah as a companion and supporter through the challenges we may be facing in our lives."


Hilde van Gool, NVC Trainer in Belgium

"I experience Sarah as an experienced and lived guide with whom I feel deeply understood. She offers closeness to me exactly where it is needed. She stays with me without judgment and impartially - wherever I am at - and that is exactly what is so essential and beneficial for me."

"Ik beleef Sarah als een ervaren en doorleefde gids bij wie ik me diep begrepen voel. Ze is me nabij precies op de plek waar het nodig is. Ze blijft bij me oordeelloos en onpartijdig - waar ik ook ben- en precies dat doet me zo wezenlijk deugd." 


Jacqueline, Marketing & Creative Director

"Working with Sarah is extremely empowering. I feel very seen, heard and understood. I gain so much clarity, in our sessions together, from her insights and empathy and perspective.

She has a gift for teaching and sharing this wisdom which she embodies. I learn so much from her each time. 

I am grateful that I feel less and less afraid of conflict situations. And that I am no longer feeling a need to avoid discord to feel safe or protect myself, but to rather meet THE MOMENT in presence, authenticity and empathy and feel safe within.

This is something I always desired but never knew was possible emotionally. Thank you, Sarah, for your contribution to my life."